.However what Astrid doesn't recognize but is actually a truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses two kids-- may verify: The fact that your connection with your parents adjustments and evolves as you both grow older, as well as hopefully for the better. "Your world facilities around [your little ones] when they're infants [as well as] it is actually a great deal job yet charming," O'Hara says. "Later, you actually miss out on that, given that after that you can't obtain them to do everything you desire them to do, since they start creating their very own minds, their very own opinions." And inevitably, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, capable to gain from her kids. "They are actually just such cool younger individuals," she points out. "I'm not their colleague, however I really love having talks with all of them and also understanding just how they think about life.".